The Marriage Renaissance
TURN YOUR RELATIONSHIP INTO A WORK OF ART
My Loves,
🔑 What if I told you that YOU, as a the feminine pole of your relationship, already hold the keys to an extraordinary Union that lasts a lifetime?
🔑 What if I told you that YOU, as a woman, already have everything you need to create an everlasting love affair with your beloved, that feels like a honeymoon that never, ever ends?
🔑 What if I told YOU, because of your unique design and gifts as a feminine woman, have already been appointed as the gatekeeper of your love life, and that it's safe (actually, it's a requirement) to stop holding your beloved hostage and waiting for HIM to change so that YOU can experience marital bliss again?
If there's one thing I have discovered over my 6-year career as a love and relationship coach, and in a decade-long Union, is that far too often, we (women) give our God-given power away in our relationships with the Masculine, by falling into the "if only he would" trap...
If only he were more emotionally available, THEN we would have better intimacy...
If only he were more emotionally intelligent, THEN we would have better communication...
If only he were more conscious or spiritual, THEN we could truly evolve together as a couple...
If only he were the most perfect divine masculine King, THEN I would feel more respectful towards him...
If only he were a better lover, THEN he would give me more, better, deeper orgasms...
If only he were more present, THEN he would be a much better partner...
If only he were a better leader, THEN I could truly surrender to him...
And on and on it goes...
An endless list of hostage demands that not only put HIM in a trap, it's really not very fun for us, either.
Nothing is more unsexy than a hostage situation unfolding in the place where you most desire to feel safe, and at home.
What I really want to say here is...
It's completely understandable that you might be holding your beloved hostage right now...
If HE were doing all of those things correctly, then you would gladly surrender to him and you would have the perfect relationship until death do you part...
Right???
It's true what they say that the man is the head of the household...
What most of us never learned from our mothers (unless they knew the secrets of the Muse), is that the woman is the NECK...
In other words, she has tremendous power in her relationship that she has probably never tapped into (especially if she's been watching his side of the street like a hawk).
Now, this probably isn't the type of power you have wielded at your corporate job or as an entrepreneur hustling your way to 6 figures... It's not a power of control or domination or power-over...
It's not the power of seduction or manipulation...
This is another kind of power entirely...
A soft power...
A quiet power...
A power of influence...
A power of inspiration...
A power of invitation...
A power that whispers, I miss you, I need you, I trust you...
A power that perceives her beloved in his highest, without needing him to change this red hot second...
A power that receives her beloved as King, not because of some nebulous "potential" she wishes he would step into, but because she already knows he is a legend...
Because she knows that SHE wouldn't have chosen anyone less than a legend. A power that forgives, that accepts, that respects, that devotes, that exalts...
A power that receives, that emanates, that radiates, that surrenders all need to control...
Not because of what she can GET out of it but because that is WHO SHE TRULY IS...
As a Woman and as a Wife.
🌹This is a power perfumed with the essence of a rose...
⚔️Not jagged like the edge of a sword...
This, my loves, is what it is to master our true feminine potency and power in relationship with the Masculine...
This is what it is to create...
A Marriage Renaissance.
Jonathan and I are absolutely thrilled to announce our very first container of the new year...
To master your side of the street in your relationship with your beloved...
So you can hit the reset button on your relationship and restore it to its original glory...
So you can start experiencing the depth of connection and intimacy you crave...
So you can feel adored, desired, seen, and cherished like you did during those first few months and years of your union...
So you can be lavished with more love, attention, compliments, gifts, romance, and passion...
So you can become a match to deeper levels of provision on all levels...
So you can finally have the Fairytale union you envisioned when you first got married...
Without dragging him to couples therapy...
Without pulling teeth having another one of those "talks"...
Without ultimatums or threats...
Without manipulation or control...
Simply by...
Stepping into your God-given power as a feminine woman.
This is a high level, highly personalized one on one container where you will work with both of us to restore your relationship to its original glory...
And while we're at it, we'll turn it into a work of art.
🌹Four Month Container
🌹Twelve 75-Minute Sessions
🌹Email support in between zoom calls
🌹Meditations / embodiment practices
This is for women who are married OR are in a long term, committed partnership that is currently on the rocks, and nothing else has worked.
What our clients are saying…
"I wanted to take a moment to express my gratitude and how far my husband and I have come in our marriage since I started receiving coaching from Claudia and Jonathan earlier this year. Things were so rocky at the beginning of this year. We were getting into conflict/fights (not yelling but more him avoiding me and giving me the silent treatment) almost every week. I would dread when a weekend was about to come around because I'd know we're likely to have a blow up of some sort. I was anxious and losing sleep and often spent nights sobbing into my pillow for months!
The last three months have been so peaceful. Part of me still has an underlying fear of things blowing up, but in the past three months they haven't. Touch-wood, things have shifted in a profound way in our marriage. We got over the hurdle of almost ending our marriage in September, to arriving at a place of balance, peace, devotion and tenderness.
This has been a huge learning curve and I surely would have struggled to navigate it without your wisdom and guidance Claudia and Jonathan. I simply wanted to say thank you. The work that you both are doing is critical for our society right now." – T, Australia
"I've had many sessions with Claudia Phillips and Jonathan Grant Phillips in the past year and I'm so grateful to have the opportunity to practice the wisdom they've shared with me. My marriage has improved greatly because of this and I keep getting proof that this stuff works, even if it feels uncomfortable at first. I always thought that when you have conflict or if my needs aren't being met in a relationship, the best approache is to have a long sit down and "talk it through".
I've come to discover this approach is in fact one of the worst approach you can take with a masculine man. It simply makes things worse. There are other much more effective ways to get your desires and feelings across which enhance the connection rather than dampen it. Ufff. I wish we were taught these much needed feminine wife skills earlier. I'm grateful to be learning and applying them now." – Jagriti, Australia
"I am bursting inside to share my journey from breakup to marriage with you!!! I hope it brings you faith that embodying the feminine is TRULY POWERFUL- 8 weeks ago I had an uncontrollable and very destructive meltdown. I began to sabotage my relationship with this handsome man. I started tearing his character apart and criticizing him and spitting out fire as I try to destroy him and our love because I was SO afraid he didn’t love me. I was constantly looking for signs that, once again, a man didn’t love me… just like my father. I then enrolled in the 12 week coaching.
Since my first session Jon did things he’d NEVER done WITHOUT being asked!!! My MIND was blown. 3 weeks later he proposed!!! And then 2 weeks later we got married!!! I am here to tell you THIS WORKS. What she offers if you listen and APPLY is TRANSFORMATIONAL. To tell you the truth It simply feels peaceful inside to be married. But what I’m really looking forward to is the future we build now that I finally feel confident, empowered, full of hope and trust that the life I always desired is possible. And I have to do is sit back, relax, and receive it." – Buffy, USA